Healing Pain For Children
Some mothers may give their healthy children many pills every day. Some pills are not even necessary such as sleeping pills. Imagine a young girl with good health is receiving sleeping pills from her mother every single day. One day she has a party with her friends and she needs to take those pills in the middle of the party. Do you think the girl will fall asleep right after taking the pills? The answer is obvious. The girl will only fall asleep when her friends are asleep too.
Parents’ education is the first important part for medication consumption of kids.
There are babies and young children died of poisoning every year. This could be prevented if they were taught the right attitude towards medication. So parents should show their children that it is wrong to take pills whenever they feel uncomfortable. Many of the fatal cases of poisoning can be avoided if they have this thinking.
I have seen all four of my children in pain and I know it hurts. However, it is sometimes more important for us to show them love and acknowledgment at those times. Say a boy falls hard on the ground somewhere far away from his house, he cries extremely hard. As he slowly makes his way back to his parents, he gradually stops crying. He then cries again upon seeing his parents. As a parent, you only have to take him in your arms and tell him you know he is feeling painful. All he needs is a sign of love. The pain has actually already long been gone!
Kids, like adults, their minds can only focus on one thought consciously at one time, either on an object or on a thought. You must have seen a baby staring at his hand or at a fan, paying full attention to that. Thus whenever your kids feel painful, you can direct his or her to think of something other than the things that make him or her feels painful. This can help healing their pain.
What do mothers usually do when we are in pain? They kiss us and you must agree that it does make it less painful.
There are of course some children who are under chronic pain, others may have to face treatments like chemotherapy or bone marrow transplant which are highly painful. What do we do if such things happen?
“Patch Adams” is an inspiring movie on these issues. Patch Adams was brave enough to challenge the existing system as a physician. He maintained that positive spirit while he was talking to patients with terminal diseases. I can’t imagine myself doing that, but I do admire him a great deal. Some people complained too much about the movie, disliking the fact that the old physician came together with a beautiful girl. These people should pay closer attention because they were missing the point of the whole story. I would suggest them to watch it a second time. It’s worth it.
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